How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

How to get your ex boyfriend back

im currently fourteen but when i first met luke i was 11 and he had just come to my primary school we have been best friends since. We’ve both dated people before but we always kind of secretly liked eachother. I suppose we didn’t admit it because we were so close. Anyway last year i broke up with my boyfriend mark… we kind of just weren’t meant for eachother and broke up. I was walking out the back to the feild with luke and he was like "why would mark brake up with you what an idiot" and all this and i kinda fell for him more. Anyway i was on msn talking to luke about 8 months ago and he started going on about how he liked this girl.. as jealous as i was i decided to help him with his problem as being his friend. He said he had a problem, he liked this girl he was very close friends with he was scared that if he asked her out it may ruin their friendship in the future if they broke up. I told him that you just go for it and that if she really was the friend he described her to be nothing would ever get between their friendship. He said it helped alot and i had to go. As i said goodbye he exclaimed that i was the girl he was talking about. I was shocked although so excited and told him my side of things and had to go. The next day was the swimming carnival and it was slightly awkward seeing him. He finally built the courage the ask me out and obviously i said yes.

We were really close and it seemed like nothing would ever get between us. At one stage i was kinda freaked out that he was a bit to sexual but we talked it over and sorted it out. He came back to his normal self and we hung out all the time. I really fell for him. Then came the holidays and luke had to visit his mum in queensland for a few weeks of it. I didn’t mind of course i missed him though. Although he did miss my birthday which was devostating because i just wanted to hang out with him in that time. He got me a heart shaped charm for my pandora, kissed me and said he loved me and left. A week or so passed and i found out that he cheated on me. I was really hurt by it and i kind of tried to make myself not believe it. I was in town with my friend and came upon him which was shit timing. He smiled at me inside a shiop and i looked straight ahead and walked away. He came over to me and he pronmised me that he didn’t i believed him and we continued our realtionship. It was always slightly more awkward after the whole cheating situation. We seemed to be getting more distant although seemed to patch things up, we went slightly distant again and i found out he apperently cheated on me again but once again he denied it and i believed him.

He was sick for a about a week and i was sorta use to not having him around but so happy when he came back. I walked over to him and it was so weird. It felt like we didnt know eachother anymore. That lunch he dumped me over my best friend. I was really confused why and why he didnt say it to my face? i started crying because i was just so upset and then saw him laughing at me. According to his friend he wasn’t laughign at me he was laughign at a joke but that seems like bullshit. He would always avoid me and it was heaps awkward because i was heaps close with the friends he had since i use to always been around them. I decided since there was NO way he would talk to me or listen to anyone else id write him a note which just said like i understand if you dont like me and that but i still want to be your friend like we agreed on before this all. I gave it to my best friend to give it to him and he apperently handed it back to her. That hurt too :L i was heaps confused. I dont get why he doesnt even want to be friends or any of this shit. He wont go anywhere near me, if i come over he’ll walk away and now he thinks im going out with his best friend which im not. It’s like we’re strangers i swear. Im pretty much over him and everything just can someone help me work out whats going on? why didnt he dump me to my face? whys he act like he doesnt know me? whys he being a dickhead? help :l

How to get your ex boyfriend back

How to get your ex boyfriend back

ok his is a little long but please read the whole thing.

-well me and my ex have been through so much i was 14 and he was 17 when we started dating. him and his best friend were both inlove with me but he told his best friend that he knew i was the one for him so he wanted his bestfriend to back off a month into our relationship i lost my virginity to him i knew i wanted it to be him and he didnt force me to do anything he kept asking me if i was sure and he would stop whenever i wanted to. we were great together and we always spent time together. he treated me like a girl deserves. he made me feel on top of the world. i love this guy soo much but we broke up 4 months ago.during winter break we stopped talking?! we were still going out but for some reason we just didnt have any contact. and of course he was at parties getting drunk and everything well since he didnt talk to me i didnt even care to waste my time on him, i called it off and he was like well thats fine.

-but then after winter break when we started school again he called me afterschool to tell me he wanted to meet up with me and we did and he said" i cant do this anymore, i thought it would be easy to get over you but its not i love you soo much and i want us to be back together, everynight im in my bed i just look at my phone hoping i would get a call but nothing, and i would die if i see you with another guy and i tried everything to get you off my mind but your all ive ever wanted and all i’ll ever want" we eventually got back together at the end of that week and we had sex during those 2 weeks then we stopped talking again! i was sooo mad at him i didnt talk to him for a month until i found out i was pregnant! by january i was already 15 so by that point in my life im 15 im pregnant to the guy who im still inlove with and hes out having sex with other girls. i told him and he said he would be with me through everything and he was, he even got a tattoo with my name and the date of the baby. unfortunatly i had to give up the baby..

-were still friends and everytime we talk he always smiles. and last month he always called me and texted me he always brought up how he was soo stupid for giving me up and that he was sorry for everything. he says that he wishes he could find a girl like me. now hes talking to one of the girls that hates me? and my friend had a get together that me and that girl were invited to and he asked if the other girl was coming and my friend told her no cause her moms strict so he said nevermind i aint going then.

and i want to let him know i still have feelings because everytime we left eachother he would always come back to me, i think its time to tell him how i really feel this time, what should i do?

How to get your ex boyfriend back

How to get your ex boyfriend back

Really big issue here:
My wife and I have been married for almost a year, known each other for years. Just a few days ago I found out that she was in communication with her boyfriend not that long ago, and she still might be communicating with him but I am not sure. Anyway, I came across a few emails they wrote back and forth. It started of as wishing each other best, hope all is well, nice to hear from you, blah blah blah. It quickly changed:
- He saw her pic on some web page and said that she still looking good. She replied that she wishes she could say the same for him but he doesn’t have a picture on the website yet.
- He tells her that he has been thinking about her for the past 3 years, since the last time the spoke, he than asked her for her number so they can talk sometime because typeing messages or emails take to long. He thinks its crazy that it has been so long since the last time they spoke.
- He speaks about a certain job he will be getting soon, my wife is happy to hear that type of job he is getting into because she works in the same field of work. She seems to be very happy about possibly running into each other one day.
- She continues to tell him that she is always thinking about him and praying for him and his family. Continues to tell him how proud she is of him and what he has made with him, and where he is at in his life right now
- She tells him that she has no kids yet but she has a puppy, a PitBull, than she says (You know I was never one for small things lol )
She put it in parenthesis just like that. She originally wanted a small poodle but she say the dog we have now and said we had to have it so now thats what we have. She originally wanted a small dog..Now I can take what she said about small things in a sexual way, because she didnt mention Small dogs or big dogs, she just said how she was never into small things and laughed about it.
- Numerous times thought the messages she and he wrote back and forth they both expressed how much they worried about each other, thought about each other, hoping they were doing well, good to hear from them, etc..
- She told him that once he is in NY to hit her up on the website they are both on and if he had a number at that time she will give him a call.
- She mentioned that she was married once in the 5-6 messages they emailed to each other but not once that she was happy or happy with where she is in her life.
- He tells her that he always thought he would be the one she would get married to but life has thrown them some curves. He hopes that there are more curves in his life that will lead him to running into her again
- He than tells her that he thanks her for being proud of him and that for a long time the only opinion that matter to him was hers. Meanwhile my wife and I have been together for almost 4 years, married for almost 1 year.He ends the message with Love Always Macho, Your Always in my heart.
- She replied saying "to be honest I always wanted you to be the one that I was with but what can i do right. I guess we met each other to soon in life, you are right about life throwing curves at us as life goes on, so lets see if there are more curves that leads us back on the right path". She than tells him that its not weird that there thoughts are always on each other, its because they love each other. She tells him that while she is typing the message to him it brings up so many memories from when they were together and think about what could of been and once was. She apologizes and hopes the she is not getting out of line with what she is saying, she ask him to let her know if she is getting out of line. She then tells him that they should definitely meet up when he gets to NY, never mentions that I will introduce you to my Husband. He had mention in a previous not about maybe we could meet each other spouses or something but laughed right after he said it.
- She says wow about 3 times back to back, then she says "Macho… you know that you are the only person i said that too lol I never used it again… lol wow lol just thinking bout it" Now I can interpret that to be a lot of things, it sounds like something very intimate with just them to, something between them, something that is a lasting memory in her head, it has to be the way it took her back the way it did, probably something sexual again. She then ends the message with Love Always, Right back at ya (he said right back at ya meaning Your Always in my heart, like what he said before)

Now you tell me what I should do? I want to approach her about this but i stop myself because I do not want to fight, I do not want to argue, I do not want to go through anymore days of not talking to each other or anything like that. I also hold myself back because it was on a website from 4 months ago, she probably thought I would never know the password to the website so how would I ever find out.

Please tell me what should I do…Really
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How to get your ex boyfriend back

How to get your ex boyfriend back

My best friend has been on and off with her boyfriend for 3 years. I don’t want to be mean but she is kind of obsessed with him. When ever she is going out with him she cant talk about anything but him and me and my other friends get annoyed. It’s always well he did this and we did that and then he said… I hope you get it. But when they are not going out she still cant shut up about him she is crazy! I feel bad for him to because he knows how crazy she is and he can’t even like another girl if he wanted to. Anyways the other night we were all at my friend’s house and he broke up with her for good because he couldn’t take her anymore. That same night right after he broke up with her he started flirting with me A LOT! It was weird he was touchy and saying all these nice things about me and he was carrying me around the whole night like we had just gotten married. After all that he carried me up stairs to talk to me alone and was like I think you are really pretty and nice and smart and to be honest with you I like you a lot… more then a friend and I have for a while even when I was with my ex. This took me by surprise I didn’t know what to say to him, but at that time I realized I liked him too, I always have in the back of my head. But right after I was filled with excitement the thought of my friend who dated him came in my mind. I told this boy that everything he said was really nice but I need time to take this all in. I went back down stairs to the rest of my friends. I was thinking I could never be with this boy and still have my friend stay my friend it wouldn’t happen! I went up to my friend who just got her heart broken, again and said if your ex went out with another girl would you be mad at her and immediately she said yes I would be very mad at her especially if she was my friend. After that I went home upset because I really like this boy and I want my other friend not to be mad at me for liking him. I want to go out with him but I don’t know how to tell her and explain everything without her hating my guts forever because I really want her to stay my friend and I don’t want things to be awkward between us. Please help me what do I do?!?

How to get your ex boyfriend back

How to get your ex boyfriend back

How does a girl get her ex boyfriend back. More importantly, what would make you attracted to your ex girlfriend again?

How to get your ex boyfriend back

How to get your ex boyfriend back

my boyfriend and my best friend keeps fighting and when me and my other friend trys to stop them
they dont take us seriously
my boyfriend doesnt know when to stop
and my friend keeps saying stuff that makes my friend mad
and i live 15 miles away and im about to leave them both
never talk to them again becuase its to much stress
my best friend likes me and my boyfriend broke up with me becuase he wanted to go out with my ex best friend but he couldnt get me off his mind so he broke up with her and went back out with me

How to get your ex boyfriend back

How to get your ex boyfriend back

So I was with this guy for three years. We broke up in 2005 mutually. So its been 3 years, but I went with other guys only 3 one was 5 months and another 5 months and the other one only 2 weeks. The 2nd one that lasted 5 months I got pregnant with and I lost my son. The father was never there, but my ex was in the hospital for the week I was in there. Also at my son’s funeral. Anyway I think the reason I can’t stay in a relationship long is because I still love him. I told him about 1 and a half years ago how I felt but it was right after I lost my son. He told me he likes just being friends thats what hes best at. He needed to figure some things in his life before he got into a relationship again. Well I tried moving on I dated another guy and I just couldn’t fall in love with him. So I broke it off. My ex that I still love, we are best-friends but I want more and he acts like it too I think. So my question is this does he still only want to be friends or more? When we are together he is always leaning on me, touching me, like massaging my neck or back, trying to tickle me. If he’s lying on the floor and I am tickling him he pulls me down to try and tickle me. If he knows I like a certain song he will play it. I go to church with him which recently I rededicated my life to Christ. He went on vacation with me. he lays on me or I will lay on him when we watch a movie. When we are done hanging out for day he hugs me very tight before I go home. Our mutual best friend keeps saying things like just get married, or I will plan your wedding, and things like that, and he never says no. I don’t know if it just him or if he still has feelings for me but is just too scared to admit it. ???? Should I tell him again how I feel or just try to give up?

How to get your ex boyfriend back

How to get your ex boyfriend back

My ex and I broke up in September it was my fault.
So after we broke up ive been single hes already gone out with two girls and wasnt feelin them the first one broke up with him , the second one he broke up with.
Everybody thought it was my fault when it really wasnt. So this one day he comes up to me and asks me how I was doing and why i was ignoring him. I didnt look at him but he was huffin me for a little while i was like okay i gotta go back to my seat bye. So that night he texted me and stuff i was like uhm.. okay? i guess and we were texting days went by and he said he loves talkin to me that he gets annoyed by his girlfriend cause she had the most annoying loudest laugh EVER. So he broke up with her that same day. It was a weekend, so what had happen was that she was "heart broken" but she was ugly anyways. He knows how i feel for him and we talk about our past. So it looks like he only said things back because he doesnt know what he wants, he doesnt know what he feels. So we flirt a lot and people asks "oh are you and mikey back together?" I say no and they say oh well you guys look like your talking then. He said he thought were more like "bestfriends" I dropped everything with him even if it hurts. This was recent.

Another question: So I get jealous BIG time how do control that? especially someone im falling for but not suppost to ?

How to get your ex boyfriend back

How to get your ex boyfriend back

My boyfriend (well, ex, as of Thursday) was on a dating website. I asked him about it, and he said that he was trying to delete it. Being suspicious and wanting to cover my bases, I made a profile and messaged him. I was praying that he wouldn’t answer, but he did. I flirted (I had an alias and fake pic up), and then I asked him if he wanted to meet up. WHILE I WAS AT HIS HOUSE, he said he was going outside to talk on the phone and smoke. I knew what he was doing though; he was meeting this "fake" girl by his pool a few buildings up. I left the house, and as I was leaving I sent him one last message: "make sure you go to your ex-girlfriend’s house to get your bathing suit." Immediately, he started calling me, crying, etc. He has called a lot, and I can tell he’s really sad. However, how can you say you love someone and then do that? He said he wants to earn my trust back, but I don’t know if that is even possible. Is it?

How to get your ex boyfriend back

How to get your ex boyfriend back

2 weeks ago me and my ex broke up. He told me never to call his phone again. I was distraught and heartbroken and still am. A few days ago he sent me a text message and this was it…

him- Hey I want to apologize for the way I acted towards you
Me- it’s ok
him- alright
him(5 minutes later)- I will talk to you later on and take care
me- you to

The day after he text me again…

him- If you want to talk about anything let me know
him (15 minutes later)- Thats if you want to.
me- thank you you are welcome to talk to me also.

I was just wondering your opinion on why he text me all that. A day before he first text me he asked my best friend about me and how I was doing. Does he want me back? or does he want to remain friends and that he knows he did wrong. I still love him but he really hurt me. I cried for nights over him because of the break up. I would definitely get back with him but he is going to have to initiate it. What should I do? He hasn’t contacted me again for almost 2 days

How to get your ex boyfriend back